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How to Become Addictive to Someone

They won't stop thinking about you.

You will be on their mind from dawn until dusk.

The mysterious science of becoming utterly addictive to someone is within your grasp.

Buckle up, because we're about to embark on a journey that's part charm school, part playful seduction, and all kinds of cheeky fun.

Whether you're a person dating as a single, or someone separated and ready to dip back in to love, this is for you.

Let's take a dive into the ways you can be more addictive:

1. The Art of the Enigmatic Entrance:

Ever noticed how the most intriguing characters in a movie stroll into a scene, leaving you desperate to know more?

Apply that cinematic flair to your life!

Make an entrance that screams, "I'm the protagonist of this blockbuster, and you're in for a wild ride."

Confidence is your wingman

Whether it's a casual coffee shop or the local grocery store, own that space like it's your personal red carpet.

when you see your person, make sure you don't walk with shyness or meekness.

push your shoulders back and walk tall and confident.

It will not only make you more attractive but will shift your energy and vibration.

Pro Tip: Confidence is your wingman; let it strut alongside you.

2. Magnetic Conversations - The Verbal Voodoo:

F*ck the weather!

My goodness mama, get some game.

Forget small talk; talk big stuff.

Engage in conversations that leave a lasting and indelible mark.

talk saucy sex

Throw in a dash of wit, a pinch of humor, and a sprinkle of genuine interest.

It's even better to talk saucy sex than it is to bore someone about your impoverished love life or the death of a grandparent.

Make them feel like they're the star of the show, and you're the most captivated member of the audience.

get excited about things that excite them.

show them that you can be cheeky and fun but also intellectual.

Pro Tip: Master the art of the unexpected compliment—it's the verbal equivalent of a plot twist.

3. The Subtle Power of Mystery:

Keep 'em guessing, Sherlock style.

No need for a pipe and a deerstalker hat, just a sprinkle of enigma.

Leave a trail of intrigue in your wake; it's like catnip for curious minds.

smile is your secret weapon

Revel in the allure of the unsaid, and watch them crave every piece of the puzzle...


Don't reveal too much about your high-school and formative years, or much about your career.

stay somewhat vague - they'll take it from there and think over and over about who you might have been.

it leaves room for more conversation later.

Pro Tip: A well-timed mysterious smile is your secret weapon.

4. Master the Compliment Game:

Ah, compliments—the glitter of the conversational universe.

But here's the twist: make them genuine and specific.

Compliment their mind

Anyone can say "nice shoes," but not everyone notices the subtle patterns that scream personality.

Be the noticer, the appreciator, the one who turns mundane moments into unforgettable compliments.

get keen on their well matched fresh fragrance or their way of seeing the world.

Pro Tip: Compliment their mind; it's the sexiest part of anyone.


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5. The Playful Tease - Tread Lightly:

No one can resist a well-executed tease.

Playful banter is the spice of life, and a dash of it can turn a regular conversation into a flirtatious dance.

Playful teasing separates friends from lovers, goats from sheep.

choose wit over cheek

Here are some ways to be more successfully playful:

On their quirks:

  • "I have to say, your taste in socks is... boldly unique. Is there a secret sock society I don't know about?"

  • "Do you practice that bedhead look, or does it just come naturally? Either way, it's a solid fashion statement."

In a friendly competition:

  • "I bet I can beat you in a thumb war with my eyes closed. Ready for the challenge?"

  • "I heard you're the reigning champion of rock-paper-scissors. I've been training in secret, though. Are you up for a rematch?"

On their interests or skills:

  • "So, I hear you're a master chef. Does that mean you can turn instant noodles into a gourmet meal? Asking for a friend, of course."

  • "I was going to challenge you to a dance-off, but then I remembered I can't dance. So, you win this round."

About their habits:

  • "I noticed you're a coffee enthusiast. Is there a support group for people who can't function without their daily caffeine fix?"

  • "I'm convinced you have a superpower. How else do you manage to find the perfect meme for every situation?"

In a playful disagreement:

  • "Pizza with pineapple? I admire your boldness, even if I strongly disagree with your life choices."

  • "I heard you're a morning person. Is it true, or did someone just spread that rumor to make the rest of us look bad?"

Just remember, it's a delicate balance between charming and cheeky—don't go overboard unless you're prepared for a pillow fight of words.

Pro Tip: If in doubt, choose wit over cheek.

6. Unleash Your Unapologetic Authenticity:

The grand finale, where you shine as the star you are.

Authenticity is your golden ticket.

Embrace your quirks, flaunt your weirdness, and let your true self take center stage.

Authenticity is the rarest gem

How you REALLY talk when you're relaxed should be quickly established.

no fakeness, no filter, no baby voice; just unadulterated YOU!

After all, the most addictive people are the ones who unapologetically be themselves.

Look at me, you probably follow me all across social media because I reflect authenticity.

What you like in me, is something possible inside of you.

Pro Tip: Authenticity is the rarest gem—wear it proudly.

In Conclusion:

Remember, dear reader, the goal isn't to manipulate hearts but to leave an indelible mark through genuine connection and a sprinkle of charisma.

So go forth, weave your magic, and may your journey to becoming utterly addictive be as delightful as a rom-com marathon with bottomless popcorn.

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